6 Ways to Increase Your Kids’ Financial Intelligence
My wife and I have been talking a bit lately about when the appropriate time would be to start educating our three year old about money. Thus far she has seemed too young to understand most money concepts, but she likes to put spare change in the money jar and marvel at how full it gets. While at the store, we explain to her that we can not buy the toy she wants because we haven’t set aside the money for it. She seems to be catching on, but we have a huge setback whenever any of her grandparents come for a visit. Overall, I think she has a fair grasp for her age on the basic concept of money. To that end, here are a few things my wife and I plan to do to keep her financially intelligent:
1. Start early
Never assume your child won’t understand anything you tell them. Keep reinforcing the basic fundamentals of money. One fundamental that applies at any age is the idea of limited resources. Don’t let them spend more than they have and explain before going to the store that there is a limited amount of money to be spent.
My wife and I plan to encourage our children to not only save a portion of their money, but to donate a fair portion as well. We hope we can instill this in them early so that it will carry with them the rest of their lives.
2. Be open with “grown-up” finances
Bring your children in to monthly “family finance” updates. Show them the income that is coming in and the expenses that are going out. Let them know why you are saving X% in a 401(k) or other savings vehicle, and ask them for suggestions on how to cut expenses/increase income so you can contribute more.
Admittedly, this tip takes a high comfort level in sharing personal details that your kids may share with their friends. If you find that sharing your income and net worth with your children is beyond your comfort level, at least share with them the generalities of your finances. For instance, instead of using dollar amounts, use percentages. This may be an eye opener for both you and your children.
3. Set goals
Show your children how good it feels to set a lofty goal and reach it. Let them set a goal of buying that Nintendo Wii game system with the discretionary part of their allowance. When they finally have enough to purchase the system, they will enjoy and value it more than if it was just given to them.
4. Give incentives to save
Despite your best efforts, your child may not be able to see the forest from the trees when it comes to saving. They may want to spend every dollar they have every time they visit the store. In order to mitigate this behavior, match portions of their saved money and explain how their savings will grow over time. Allow them to withdraw a portion of their contribution plus a little extra after set periods of time (i.e. 1 month, 3 months, etc). They may be spending a similar amount, but you can then demonstrate that their savings had grown so they have money left over.
5. Let them learn from mistakes
This idea comes from a post I read at AllFinancialMatters.com asking how hands off parents should be. If you think your child is making a mistake with the discretionary portion of his allowance, explain to them your opinion and let them decide whether or not to make the purchase. If they make the purchase and are later disappointed in their decision, remind them about the day they made the purchase decision and let them know they would have more money to spend today if they had thought things through before.
6. Explain the value of gifts
When your children receive gifts for their birthday or at Christmas, explain to them the value of the gift. This can be done by explaining how many allowances it would take for them to save up for the gift. This may not apply to gifts that are sentimental, but large gifts such as sports equipment and video games are perfect items to talk about.
In the end, I think that the best way to teach a child to live within their means and understand money is to set a good example. If you are trying to get your child not to splurge on a video game, understand that you may have to show him that you won’t buy that 52″ plasma TV you want unless it is in the budget. If you want to teach them to save, show them the percentage of your income that goes to savings. Don’t be complacent and think they aren’t watching, because they definitely are.
These tips are based on what may be my naive thoughts on educating children about money. I would be interested to hear from others who have direct experience with children of different ages.
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